The wife of late South African ambassador to France, Philisiwe Buthelezi, has spoken out for the first time since the death of her husband, Nathi Mthethwa, who was found dead at a Paris hotel on Tuesday, 30 September 2025.
His passing has left South Africa and the diplomatic community in mourning, with French authorities investigating the case. Early signs point to self-harm.
According to a joint family statement, Buthelezi and the Mthethwa family expressed their deep sorrow but also gratitude for the support they have received.
“The passing of our beloved Nathi — a devoted husband, father, brother, and South African Ambassador to Paris — has left a void beyond words. Yet your messages of condolence have brought comfort in our grief, reminding us that we are not alone,” the families said.
French media outlet Le Parisien reported that Mthethwa, 58, sent his wife a troubling message on Monday night. In it, he apologised and indicated his intention to end his life. The following morning, at around 11:10 Paris time , a security guard discovered his body in the hotel’s inner courtyard.
Authorities later confirmed that the window safety mechanism in his 22nd-floor room had been forced open with scissors found at the scene. No evidence of drugs, medication, or a struggle was discovered.
Buthelezi, who was among the last people to hear from Mthethwa, raised the alarm when he went missing, providing crucial information to police.
In her family’s statement, Buthelezi also extended appreciation to both South African and French authorities.
“We are especially thankful to the government of the Republic of South Africa for its unwavering support, and to the French authorities for their ongoing cooperation and transparency as the investigation unfolds,” said spokesperson Dr Sfiso Buthelezi, her brother.
President Cyril Ramaphosa said Mthethwa’s death was “a moment of deep grief in which government and citizens stand beside the Mthethwa family.”
He praised the ambassador’s work in strengthening South Africa’s ties with France, noting that his diplomacy benefitted both countries.
The families confirmed that arrangements are underway to bring Mthethwa’s remains back to South Africa.
“Once formal processes are complete, we will work closely with DIRCO to bring Nathi home for a memorial and funeral worthy of his legacy,” the joint statement added.